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In the Wise Words of Mother Flawless Sabrina…

Posted on November 27, 2018November 28, 2018 by

Last weekend, I had the pleasure of watching the show “Taylor Mac’s Holiday Sauce” at the Curran Theater with my friend Liz. Taylor Mac is a performance artist, drag queen, singer, and MacArthur Fellow.

“Holiday Sauce” takes a fresh, critical, queer / liberal / feminist view of Christmas traditions and music, as told by a fabulous drag queen. It’s exactly what I needed to kick off my holiday season.

One of the best parts of the show was Taylor Mac sharing what their mentor Mother Flawless Sabrina told them, when they were questioning their worth as an artist. In the words of Mother Flawless Sabrina:

“You’re the boss, applesauce.”

What does this mean? Taylor Mac explained that when you are a drag queen performing in gay cabaret shows, people will try and steal your spotlight. You have to be prepared to do what it takes to get the spotlight back.

You might be singing your little songs with your little ukelele when a couple inĀ  the front row start engaging in sexual relations. “No matter how well you play that ukelele, you can’t compete with a [sexual act],” Taylor declared.

So what do you do? You scoot over to the couple and incorporate them into your act. You put the spotlight back on you, and then you draw the audience back to what you are doing. Because,

“You’re the boss, applesauce.”

I’ve been thinking about the phrase and the meaning for days now. To me it’s about being the director of your own movie, rather than just playing a bit part in someone else’s production. It’s owning your own power, no matter who or what is trying to take power from you.

For many years, my biggest ambition was to hide in the shadow of someone who inspired me, to be the assistant or the aide-de-camp. I realize now that I was afraid of being in the spotlight, of being noticed.

I’m done with that. I’m taking back my own power. I’m embracing my inner drag queen. I’m ready to be the boss. Where’s my damn spotlight?

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