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Life Pro Tip: Offer Concrete Help Instead of Asking “How Can I Help?”

Posted on January 4, 2021January 4, 2021 by

So this “Life Pro Tip” thread on Reddit has been rattling around my head for the past couple of days. Reading through the thread has moved me to tears a few times.

I have definitely been guilty of being that person who asked someone who is grieving or suffering “How can I help?” without offering any concrete ways I was willing to help. And hearing nothing in return… I did nothing.

My resolution for 2021 is to be more pro-active and just actually do something, instead of waiting for somebody to tell me what to do. Because often the suffering person is not in a position to even know.

IMAGE CREDIT: Ginny from USA, CC BY-SA 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons

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